world is like child play infront of me

1.      baazeechaa-e-atfaal hai duniya mere aage
hota hai shab-o-roz  tamaasha  mere aage

[ baazeechaa = play/sport, atfaal = children ]

2.      ik khel hai auraNg-e-sulemaaN mere nazdeek
ik  baat  hai 'eijaz-e-maseeha  mere  aage

[ auraNg = throne, 'eijaz = miracle ]

3.      juz naam naheeN soorat-e-aalam mujhe manzoor
juz waham naheeN  hastee-e-ashiya  mere aage

[ juz = other than, aalam = world, hastee = existence,
ashiya = things/items ]

4.      hota hai nihaaN  gard  meiN sehara mere hote
ghisata hai jabeeN KHaak pe dariya mere aage

[ nihaaN = hidden, gard = dust, sehara = desert, jabeeN = forehead ]

5.      mat pooch ke kya haal hai mera tere peeche ?
too  dekh  ke  kya  rang  tera  mere  aage

6.      sach kahte ho, KHudbeen-o-KHud_aaraa na kyoN hooN ?
baiTha   hai   but-e-aainaa_seemaa   mere    aage

[ KHudbeen = proud/arrogant, KHud_aaraa = self adorer,
but = beloved, aainaa_seemaa = like the face of a mirror ]

7.      fir dekhiye andaaz-e-gul_afshaani-e-guftaar
rakh de koee  paimaanaa-o-sahba  mere  aage

[ gul_afshaanee = to scatter flowers, guftaar = speech/discourse,
sahaba =  wine, esp. red wine ]

8.      nafrat ka gumaaN guzare hai, maiN rashk se guzaraa
kyoN  kar  kahooN,  lo  naam  na  uska  mere  aage

[ gumaaN = doubt, rashk = envy ]

9.      imaaN mujhe roke hai jo khiNche hai mujhe  kufr
ka'aba   mere  peeche  hai  kaleesa  mere  aage

[ kufr = impiety, kaleesa = church/cathedral ]

10.     aashiq hooN, pe maashooq_farebee hai mera kaam
majnooN  ko  bura  kehti  hai laila  mere aage

[ farebee = a fraud/cheat ]

11.     KHush hote haiN par wasl meiN yoN mar naheeN jaate
aayee   shab-e-hijaraaN  ki   tamanna   mere  aage

[ hijr = separation ]

12.     hai mauj_zan ik qulzum-e-KHooN, kaash, yahee ho
aata  hai  abhee  dekhiye  kya-kya   mere  aage

[ mauj_zan = exciting, qulzum = sea, KHooN = blood ]

13.     go haath ko jumbish naheeN aaNhoN meiN to dam hai
rehne   do   abhee  saaGHar-o-meena   mere   aage

[ jumbish = movement/vibration, saaGHar-o-meena = goblet ]

14.     ham_pesha-o-ham_masharb-o-ham_raaz  hai mera
'GHalib' ko bura kyoN kaho achchaa mere aage !

[ ham_pesha = of the same profession, ham_masharb = of the
same habits/a fellow boozer, ham_raaz = confidant ]

21 rules of negotiation

The Critical Rules

Rule 1: No free gifts! Seek a trade-off (“OK, if . . .”) for each concession you make.

Rule 2: Start high.

Rule 3: Follow a dramatic initial concession with sharply diminishing concessions.

Rule 4: Krunch early and often.

Rule 5: Never settle issues individually. Settle all issues as a package—only as a package—at the end.

Rule 6: Conclude with a nibble.

Rule 7: Keep looking for creative (high value–low cost) concessions to trade.

7. The Important but Obvious Rules

Rule 8: Do your homework.

Rule 9: Keep the climate positive.

Rule 10: Never assume that an issue is non-negotiable just because the other side says it is. In reality, almost everything is negotiable.

Rule 11: Never accept the other side’s first offer.



8. The Nice to Do Rules

Rule 12: Start slowly.

Rule 13: Set a complete agenda.

Rule 14: Discuss the small things first.

Rule 15: Be patient.

Rule 16: Use/beware the power of legitimacy.

Rule 17: Keep your authority limited. Try to negotiate against people with higher authority.

Rule 18: Consider using good guy–bad guy.

Rule 19: Try to have the other side make the first offer.

Rule 20: Keep your team small and under control.

Rule 21: Try to have the other side travel to you.

why sad

Am just being lonely for now. i feel sad. I feel am thinking of nice memories in the past but then it makes my eyes watery. Haiiii life! Am humming the song - Some Days are diamonds, some days are stones… At times i feel like am tired smiling that pretentious smile, but I know i need to.

To become sad , its is not my habit. peoples should not think that i like to become sad.

When You asked how I've been here without you
I'd like to say I've been fine and I do.
But we both know the truth is hard to come by
And if I told the truth that's not quite true

Some days are diamonds some days are stones
Sometimes the hard times won't leave me alone
Sometimes a cold wind blows a chill in my bones
Some days are diamonds some days are stones.

Now the face that I see in my mirror
More and more is a stranger to me
More and more I can see there's a danger
In becoming what I never thought I'd be

Some days are diamonds some days are stones
Sometimes the hard times won't leave me alone
Sometimes a cold wind blows a chill in my bones
Some days are diamonds some days are stones.

Some days are diamonds some days are stones
Sometimes the hard times won't leave me alone
Sometimes a cold wind blows a chill in my bones
Some days are diamonds some days are stones.

Microsoft’s Easter Eggs

An Easter Egg is a secret message or screen buried in an application. Typically, easter eggs are used to display the credits for the development team or to display a humorous message. To see an easter egg, you need to know a special procedure or sequence of keystrokes. Webopedia

Below are some of Microsoft’s Easter Eggs:

Excel 2000

1. Open Excel 2000.
2. Select Save as Web Page from the File menu.
3. Select Save Selection:Sheet and Add Interactivity.
4. Save the .htm file.
5. Load the .htm page with IE. You should have Excel in the middle of the page.
6. Scroll to row 2000, column WC. Select row 2000, and tab so WC is the active column.
7. Press CTRL+ALT+SHIFT and click the Office logo in the upper-left.
If you have DirectX, you will be taken to an arcade-style racing game. Use the arrow keys to drive, space to fire, O to drop oil slicks, and, when it gets dark, H for headlights. Go ahead, indulge that road rage!

Excel 97

1. Open Excel 97.
2. On a new Worksheet, Press F5.
3. Type “X97:L97” (no quotes, not case sensitive) and press Enter.
4. Press the Tab key.
5. Hold Ctrl+Shift and click the Chart Wizard button on the Standard toolbar.
You are flying above a dark, mysterious world. Use the mouse to fly around. Click the left button to go forward, or the right to go backward. Watch for the scrolling marquee on the side of a hill.

PowerPoint 2000

1. Open PowerPoint 2000.
2. Select About Microsoft PowerPoint from the Help menu.
3. Press CTRL+ALT+SHIFT and double-click the PowerPoint logo.
See the people who brought you PowerPoint 2000.

PowerPoint 97

1. Open PowerPoint 97
2. Select About Microsoft PowerPoint from the Help menu.
3. Hold Ctrl+Shift+Alt and click the horizontal line under the licensing information three times.
See the people who brought you PowerPoint 97.

Word 2000

1. Open Word2000.
2. Select About Microsoft Word from the Help menu.
3. Press CTRL+ALT+SHIFT and click the horizontal line at the bottom of the dialog box.
The Microsoft Word 2000 logo appears. Left-click it to close it.

To explore more of Microsoft’s Easter Eggs, visit DDM’s Microsoft Office Tips and Tricks!

dil he to ha

1.      dil hee to hai na sang-o-KHisht dard se bhar na aaye kyoN ?
royeNge  ham   hazaar  baar,  koee  hameiN  sataaye  kyoN ?

[ sang = stone, KHisht = brick ]

2.      dair naheeN, haram naheeN,  dar naheeN, aastaaN naheeN
baiTHe haiN rehguzar pe ham, GHair hameiN uTHaaye kyoN ?

[ dair = temple, haram = mosque, dar = gate, aastaaN = abode,
rehguzar = path/way ]

3.      jab woh  jamaal-e-dil_faroz, soorat-e-meher-e-neem_roz
aap hee ho nazzaara_soz, parde meiN muNh chupaaye kyoN ?

[ jamaal = beauty, faroz = shining/luminous, meher = sun,
neem_roz = mid day, nazzaara_soz = beautiful/worth seeing ]

4.      dashna-e-GHamza jaaN_sitaaN, naawak-e-naaz be_panaah
tera hee  aks-e-ruKH  sahee, saamne  tere aaye  kyoN ?

[ dashna = dagger, GHamza = amorous glance, jaaN_sitaaN = distroying
life, naawak = a kind of arrow, aks = image ]

5.      qaid-e-hayaat-o-band-e-GHam  asl meiN dono  ek haiN
maut se  pehle  aadmee  GHam  se  nijaat paaye kyoN ?

[ hayaat = life, band-e-Gham = conceled sorrows,
nijaat = release/liberation ]

6.      husn aur uspe  husn_zan rah gayee bulhawas ki sharm
apne  pe  'eitmaad  hai,  GHair  ko  aazmaaye  kyoN ?

[ husn_zan = favourable view, bulhawas = slave of passions/very
greedy, 'eitmaad = reliance/dependance ]

7.      waaN wo GHuroor-e-iz'z-o-naaz yaaN yeh hijaab-e-paas-e-waz'a
raah  meiN  ham  mile  kahaaN,  bazm  meiN  wo  bulaaye kyoN ?

[ GHuroor = pride, iz'z-o-naaz = respect and beauty,
hijaab = veil/modesty, paas = regard, waz'a = behaviour ]

8.      haaN  wo  naheeN  KHuda_parast,  jaao  wo be_wafa sahee
jisko ho deen-o-dil 'azeez, uskee galee meiN jaaye kyoN ?

[ parast = worshipper, deen = religion/faith ]

9.      'GHalib'-e-KHasta ke baGHair kaun se kaam band haiN ?
roiye   zaar-zaar  kya,   keejiye   haay-haay  kyoN ?

[ KHasta = sick/injured, zaar-zaar = bitterly ]

aah ko chaahiye ik 'umr asar hone tak

1.      aah  ko chaahiye  ik 'umr  asar hone  tak
kaun jeeta hai teree zulf ke sar hone tak ?

2.      daam har mauj meiN hai halqa-e-sad_kaam-e-nahaNg
dekhaiN  kya  guzre hai qatre  pe guhar hone tak

[ daam = net/trap, mauj = wave, halqa = ring/circle, sad = hundred,
nahaNg = crocadile, sad_kaam-e-nahaNg = crocadile with a hundred
jaws, guhar = pearl ]

3.      aashiqee  sabr  talab   aur  tamanna   betaab
dil ka kya rang karooN KHoon-e-jigar hone tak ?

[ sabr = patience, talab = search ]

4.      ham ne  maana  ke taGHaful na karoge, lekin
KHaak ho jaayeNge ham tumko KHabar hone tak

[ taGHaful = neglect/ignore ]

5.      partav-e-khur se hai shabnam ko fana'a ki taaleem
maiN  bhee  hooN ik  inaayat  ki  nazar  hone tak

[ partav-e-khur = sun's reflection/light/image, shabnam = dew,
fana'a = mortality, inaayat = favour ]

6.      yak_nazar besh naheeN fursat-e-hastee GHaafil
garmi-e-bazm  hai  ik raqs-e-sharar  hone tak

[ besh = too much/lots, fursat-e-hastee = duration of life,
GHaafil = careless, raqs = dance, sharar = flash/fire ]

7.      GHam-e-hastee ka 'Asad' kis'se ho juz marg ilaaz
shamma'a har rang meiN jaltee hai sahar hone tak

[ hastee = life/existence, juz = other than, marg = death,
sahar = morning ]

Project Team Training Plan

The speed of the boss is the speed of the team. - Lee Iacocca

Improved deliverable! Training your project team in the application, business environment, project development techniques and other pertinent subjects is important to the success of your project. Use this training plan and schedule template to prepare your team to hit the ground running and get the just-in-time skills training they need to do the job.

Purpose

The Training Plan describes all training necessary for each Team Member on the project. This allows the Project Manager to provide the team with timely training at different points in the project, and plan for the training hours in the work plan.

Project Name

<Project Name>

Types of Training

List the types of training to be provided, such as training in the application(s), techniques to be used in the project development, customer enterprise business policy training, etc.

Identify the courses and course details for each type of training to be provided. Fill in a separate table for each course.

Component	Instructions
Course Name
Training Category	Training category (e.g., application, technique, business policy) to which the course applies
Course Description	Brief summary of the course (overview)
Estimated Course Duration	Estimated duration of the course in days or hours
Course Audience	Estimated number of individuals, categorized by team roles, who require the training.
Course Objectives	Desired outcome of the training
Course Outline	Topics to be covered in the training session (Attach separate sheet)
Prerequisite Skills	Prerequisite skills necessary for each team role attending the training
Supporting Materials	Facilities, presentation materials, student materials, and supporting technology necessary for delivering the training (Indicate which will be provided by customer)
Instructor Qualifications	Specific skills required by the instructor and potential sources of instructors, identified by position title (if internal) or by vendor (if training is to be provided by an external source)

Fill in the following table when the course is ready to be delivered.

Component	Instructions
Schedule	Date, time (including duration) and place when/where the course will be delivered
Instructor Name
Attendees	Names and phone numbers of team members who will attend

Why we cry?

Well, let’s use science to explain why do people actually cry when they feel sad or happy. Basically, people and animals has the tear ducts located under upper eyelids. These tear ducts are the reason why people can cry and can’t hold the tears that comes out. Tear ducts generated salty-liquid or tears immediately when we are in high level of emotion either sadness, physical pain or distress. The tears resulted from emotional responses are what we called “emotional tears”.

There are three types of tears being produced. Basal tears that keep the moist in eye from dryness. Second type is reflex tears which flows out when the eye becomes irritated as result of dust or bactery. And lastly is the emotional tears will be discussed more here.

Researchers have found out that more manganese and prolactin produced in emotional tears as to compare with other types of tears. Manganese is the element that affect temperament, whereas prolactin a protein that regulates milk production. It is claimed that sobbing out emotional tears may help in relieving pain. The process is when outside sources(lost, love, etc) or inside sources(self-realization one’s life) triggers emotion and affect us, the neuro system stimulates brain to send signal to the tear ducts/glands which will be translated to production of tears. And when those tears flush out through the eyes, excesses amount of hormones and chemicals are released as to balance the body’s stress levels. Thus, while crying we tend to cry more and feel better aftermath.

Crying in the public when everyone stares at you or in your room with no one notice is a choice. Because emotional tear is most likely produced as a means of communication to relate with others, crying without any person notice may not always healthy. Just like an infant, it express pain, fears, hunger without words but cry. In the progress, adults also crying as a kind of bonding with other humans. People express crying as a mean to comfort and receive support from others. Like culturally accepted reason to cry together is in funeral. Besides they cry to relieve tension, they are communicating and comforting each other at the same time.

Human sheds tears for various reasons, whether because of physically or psychologically necessities like moisturing eyes, relaxing irritation, and relieving pain or stress. Moreover, tears also a way of conveying communication. All the reasons that human cry absolutely can make you to buy boxes of tissue. However, the fact is crying is acceptable and it helps you to arrive at calm state. So, eventually crying, weeping or sobbing is not bad at all.

“ The first accepted reason to cry is probably death. Grieving includes crying and often times it was believed that if someone did not cry, they would suffer physically because they did not release their pain. Experiences in life and love are other reasons society allows us to cry. Women have been allowed to cry more than men traditionally, but the benefits of crying seem to suggest that men need to cry more. Cultures around the world have crying out of obligation, for show, and for grief and pain. Each culture defines where and when it is acceptable to cry. Cultures, in some parts of the world, sometimes determine the length of crying and mourning. For example, in the Zuni culture, a chief allows the mourners of the dead to cry for four days after which the chief says that the death occurred four years ago, and now the mourning may end. ” - Why We Laugh and Cry

Sources -

“Why Do People Cry?” (2006). Retrieved from Scienceline http://scienceline.org/2006/10/23/ask-driscoll-tears/

Just A Life

We see some people are born with so many many things that we don’t have. Some people have only few things they can be proud of. In other hand, there are also people that we find it so hard to look of something worthy from him/her. But, even so, those people can still produce or make something they can be proud of. It may or may not be approved by the society. We have still be proud of it (that’s hard, I know, but that’s what we do to live this one life).

We may not have the same thing that people have. Remember that we are unique. What they possess may not necessary be the same as what you possess. Everyone has something special in themselves. We try to be better day by day until the day we have done our best. When is it? You decide it. Everything we can see, touch and feel will not last forever. Every possession I mentioned may be good to have in this life. But those are merely for temporary, they will perish someday. When will they perish? You decide it. These are all temporal matters.

So, what do we possess in this life that are everlasting, eternal, never vanish as long as we alive?

For me, it is nothing but CHOICES. There is no such thing as “no choice“, “I have no choice… “, “I must do this, that’s the only choice“, etc.

Choices is yours.

“I have no money, so I have no choice but to steal…”, ”No choice, I have to leave her because I am too busy…”, “I have bad grades because my teacher hate me, that’s not my choice… ” If you really look at this sentence and let your brain process other choices.. You can search for tons of choices…

It is just about our choices to feel sad or happy about ourselves. It is your choices of how you want your life is. You don’t like this kind of life, choose another kind. It is your choices of being camaraderie or betrayer. You don’t have any true friend, you choose to have one. It is your choices to have the confidence. You afraid, choose to train yourself to have brave. Choices…

When your first choice failed, there will be another choices. Remember, YOU ALWAYS HAVE CHOICES.

That’s one way of being optimistic I want to be what I want to be. That’s a choice.

just in books

Ye kitabon k qisse ye fasano ki batein,
Nigahon ki jhilmil ye judai ki ratein,
Muhabbat ki kasmein nibhane k wadey,
Ye wafa ka dhoka ye jhote irade,
Ye batein kitabi ye nazmein purani,
Na inki haqeeqat Na inki kahani,
Na likhna inhein Na mahfooz karma,
Ye jazbaat hain bus inhein mehsoos karma…